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When Harry Met Sally...

year 1989decade 80sdirector Rob Reinergenre Comedygenre Romance
host Bill Simmonshost Juliet Litmanhost Amanda Dobbins
All 18 categories

Most Rewatchable Scene · 20:47

Split: the first diner conversation

Bill Simmons: The 1977 car ride, grape spitting, diner order, Sheldon discussion, days-of-the-week underwear, and last-page habit are nominated as an opening cluster.

Bill Simmons: The 1982 airplane scene is nominated for the airport rule, white-man’s overbite, and debate over post-sex affection.

The film

When Harry Met Sally... (1989)

Directed by Rob Reiner · Comedy

95 minutes

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Cast

Selected cast credits · Film reference

Billy Crystal Harry Burns
Meg Ryan Sally Albright
Michelle Nicastro Amanda Reese
Kevin Rooney Ira Stone
Harley Kozak Helen Hillson
Estelle Reiner female customer

Everything from the episode

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17:15

Roger Ebert's review

Rating from RogerEbert.com

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  • The transcript reports Ebert’s positive assessment and his focus on the two leads’ chemistry. — Bill Simmons
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20:47

Most Rewatchable Scene

Split: the first diner conversation; Temple of Dendur; the wagon-wheel coffee-table breakdown

Split: the first diner conversation; Temple of Dendur; the wagon-wheel coffee-table breakdown

In the discussion (11)
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  • The 1977 car ride, grape spitting, diner order, Sheldon discussion, days-of-the-week underwear, and last-page habit are nominated as an opening cluster. — Bill Simmons
  • The 1982 airplane scene is nominated for the airport rule, white-man’s overbite, and debate over post-sex affection. — Bill Simmons
  • Carrie Fisher’s first lunch and Bruno Kirby’s batting-cage/baseball introduction are nominated together. — Bill Simmons
  • The Temple of Dendur “pecan pie” conversation is nominated for its photography, playfulness, and submerged romantic tension; one participant selects it.
  • The failed double date and the cab aftermath are nominated. — Bill Simmons
  • The Sharper Image “Surrey with the Fringe on Top” scene is nominated.
  • Harry’s “wagon-wheel coffee table” breakup rant is nominated and becomes one participant’s final choice.
  • The split-screen calls after Harry and Sally sleep together are nominated, with the difficult 61-take production story included. — Bill Simmons
  • The New Year’s Eve ending is admitted despite reservations discussed later.
  • The Katz’s Delicatessen fake-orgasm scene is recognized as iconic but rejected as overlong and less rewatchable.
  • The first diner scene receives one final preference for setting the film’s tone through a dense run of jokes.
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36:31

What’s Aged the Best?

Nora Ephron’s script, the 96-minute structure, friends-to-lovers premise, soundtrack, sexual candor, supporting frien...

Nora Ephron’s script, the 96-minute structure, friends-to-lovers premise, soundtrack, sexual candor, supporting friendships, old-movie references, and memorable micro-phrases

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  • The screenplay and Ephron’s voice remain clean, influential, and highly readable. — Bill Simmons
  • The 96-minute runtime wastes no scene and avoids modern padding, contrived villains, and overloaded will-they/won’t-they plotting. — Bill Simmons
  • Friends realizing mutual love remains a powerful movie and real-life template. — Bill Simmons
  • Harry Connick Jr.’s classic-song soundtrack avoids the dating effect of period pop choices. — Bill Simmons
  • New York restaurants, Sally’s changing hair before the perm, her intricate ordering, and the Knicks drought jokes remain vivid. — Bill Simmons
  • Carrie Fisher’s “Joe’s available,” Jimmy Breslin, and the warning about sleeping with a friend remain sharply observed. — Bill Simmons
  • The movie’s frank treatment of sex, different expectations, and Harry’s absolutist friendship theory remains productive and mostly nonoffensive. — Bill Simmons
  • Nora Ephron is treated as irreplaceable and New York in autumn as permanently beautiful. — Bill Simmons
  • References to Casablanca and older romantic comedies teach viewers to rewatch and argue about movies. — Bill Simmons
  • The fake-orgasm scene helped make discussion of women’s sexual experience more open, and “he’s never going to leave her” remains practical relationship advice. — Amanda Dobbins
  • The Pictionary arrows and phrases such as “baby fish mouth” show how small jokes became durable shared language. — Bill Simmons
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45:54

Best Movie-Related Fantasy Football Team Name From This Movie

Split: “Sheldon the Wonder Schlong”; “Don’t Fuck With Mr. Zero”; “Baby Fish Mouth”; “Miss Hospital Corners”

Split: “Sheldon the Wonder Schlong”; “Don’t Fuck With Mr. Zero”; “Baby Fish Mouth”; “Miss Hospital Corners”

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  • Nominees include Baby Fish Mouth, Sheldon the Wonder Schlong, Don’t Fuck With Mr. Zero, I Spy a Family, Pecan Pie, Buenos días, Señor, Sphinxie, Miss Hospital Corners, and Christmas Gravel. — Bill Simmons
  • Two participants favor Sheldon the Wonder Schlong, with one also calling Don’t Fuck With Mr. Zero funniest. — Bill Simmons
  • Another vote goes to Baby Fish Mouth and another to Miss Hospital Corners. — Bill Simmons
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47:25

What’s Aged the Worst?

The overexposed fake-orgasm scene, Meg Ryan’s perm and final-scene acting, dated aerobics and retail references, Bill...

The overexposed fake-orgasm scene, Meg Ryan’s perm and final-scene acting, dated aerobics and retail references, Billy Crystal’s age makeup, couple conformity, and lack of diversity

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  • The fake-orgasm scene has lost surprise through repetition and now feels long, though its final line remains iconic. — Bill Simmons
  • Meg Ryan’s crying-scene perm is called an exceptionally bad haircut. — Bill Simmons
  • The heavily clothed aerobics or tap class feels unmistakably 1989. — Bill Simmons
  • Teenagers may no longer understand the Casablanca references even though the film itself has aged well. — Bill Simmons
  • The Sharper Image store and Theodore Roosevelt shooting reference require lost period knowledge.
  • Jess’s wedding speech is called mean by some panelists because it jokes that neither bride nor groom was attractive to their friends. — Bill Simmons
  • Meg Ryan’s repeated “I hate you” response in the climax is criticized as weak acting against Crystal’s strong speech.
  • Billy Crystal’s college hairpiece and aging treatment make him look older in 1977 than in 1989.
  • The story treats heterosexual coupledom as the only satisfying outcome and contains no visible gay or Black characters. — Amanda Dobbins
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55:31

Who Is Your Favorite Old Married Couple Out of the Six?

The couple who worked in the same Chicago building and rode nine extra elevator floors

The couple who worked in the same Chicago building and rode nine extra elevator floors

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  • All three stated preferences converge on the “nine extra floors” couple and their overlapping speech rhythm. — Bill Simmons
  • The older Asian couple is also praised for the woman’s distinctive hair.
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56:21

Casting What-Ifs

Albert Brooks declined Harry; Susan Dey, Elizabeth Perkins, Elizabeth McGovern, and Molly Ringwald were considered fo...

Albert Brooks declined Harry; Susan Dey, Elizabeth Perkins, Elizabeth McGovern, and Molly Ringwald were considered for Sally, with the panel strongly preferring the released pair.

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57:51

The Dion Waiters Award for Best Heat Check Performance

Carrie Fisher

Carrie Fisher

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  • Fisher’s Rolodex selfishness, repeated “You’re right, I know you’re right,” and emotional economy make five scenes feel career-defining.
  • The panel compares her favorably with later rom-com best friends and argues that Ephron’s friends are people rather than one-note assistants.
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1:01:03

Half-Assed Internet Research

Rejected titles, Crystal isolating himself, real-couple interludes, Gerald Ford’s son, the original platonic ending, ...

Rejected titles, Crystal isolating himself, real-couple interludes, Gerald Ford’s son, the original platonic ending, Reiner’s changed outlook, and improvised material

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  • Ephron reportedly proposed “How They Met,” and a crew contest considered Just Friends, Playing Melancholy Baby, Boy Meets Girl, Blue Moon, Words of Love, It Had to Be You, Harry, This Is Sally, and How They Met. — Bill Simmons
  • Billy Crystal reportedly stayed apart from the cast and crew in another hotel to find Harry’s lonely mindset. — Bill Simmons
  • The interlude couples are reported as real people rather than actors. — Bill Simmons
  • Gerald Ford’s son Jack played Joe. — Bill Simmons
  • The script initially kept Harry and Sally platonic; Reiner changed the ending after meeting his future wife during production.
  • A 2004 stage adaptation starred Luke Perry and Alyson Hannigan. — Bill Simmons
  • Reiner and Crystal met playing best friends on All in the Family, and Carrie Fisher knew Reiner through Penny Marshall. — Bill Simmons
  • Harry and Sally’s final interview was reportedly improvised from a much longer filmed exchange.
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1:01:03

Is There a Better Title for This Movie?

The released title

The released title

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  • The panel ultimately prefers the specificity and memorability of “When Harry Met Sally.” — Bill Simmons
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1:05:36

Apex Mountain

Rob Reiner: qualified yes

Rob Reiner: qualified yes

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  • Billy Crystal is rejected because City Slickers and his Oscar-hosting run take him higher. — Bill Simmons
  • Meg Ryan is rejected because later signature movies and an uneven filmography complicate the case. — Bill Simmons
  • Rob Reiner is proposed and partly accepted, though Misery and Castle Rock/Seinfeld success make a later peak plausible. — Bill Simmons
  • New York as a pop-culture setting is proposed and rejected in favor of the 1970s. — Bill Simmons
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1:07:25

The Joey Pants “That Guy” Award

Bruno Kirby

Bruno Kirby

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1:07:53

The Ruffalo / Hanna / Rubinek / Partridge Overacting Award

Meg Ryan

Meg Ryan

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  • Ryan’s crying, tissue-dropping, and rapid tonal shifts are judged too broad and messy.
  • The panel debates whether several uninhibited moments fit the otherwise controlled “Miss Hospital Corners” characterization.
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1:09:44

Picking Nits

Harry’s age makeup and locations, the travel time, unshown careers, Emily breakup, post-sex behavior, dual phone line...

Harry’s age makeup and locations, the travel time, unshown careers, Emily breakup, post-sex behavior, dual phone lines, missing best-man speech, disconnected friend circles, food-bar hygiene, and compressed dating timelines

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  • College-age Harry looks far too old.
  • Sally appears to drop Harry and all his luggage in Washington Square Park, and the location complicates assumptions about his final run.
  • Chicago to New York should take closer to twelve or thirteen hours than the stated eighteen. — Juliet Litman
  • Neither Sally’s reporting nor Harry’s political consulting is ever shown or meaningfully specified.
  • Harry’s breakup with the attractive pie-business owner Emily is unexplained. — Bill Simmons
  • Harry’s panic and abrupt departure after sleeping with a close friend feel under-motivated without more drinking or bad sex. — Bill Simmons
  • Marie and Jess inexplicably maintain separate landline numbers on opposite sides of one bed.
  • The film omits what should have been a strong Billy Crystal best-man speech.
  • Sally, Jess, Harry, and Marie unrealistically remain in isolated pairs despite overlapping journalism and New York Magazine circles.
  • Picky, hygienic Sally uses shared hot-food-bar tongs across dishes.
  • Joe says “I love you” after one month, while Harry brings an anthropologist to a wedding within three weeks of sleeping with Sally. — Amanda Dobbins
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1:20:38

The Neil McCauley “A Book about Metals” Award for Best Line from the Movie

“When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody…”

“When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody…”

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  • “That symptom is fucking my wife” is praised for comic rhythm. — Bill Simmons
  • Marie’s “thin, pretty, big tits—your basic nightmare” and Sally’s “I just want it the way I want it” are nominated. — Bill Simmons
  • Harry’s final speech, culminating in wanting the rest of life to begin immediately, is treated as the defining passage.
  • Marie quoting Jess’s restaurant essay and adding that pesto is the quiche of the 1980s is a favorite.
  • “It’s too bad, because you were the only person I knew in New York” is praised for its later callback. — Amanda Dobbins
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1:22:45

Sequel, Prequel, Limited Series, or All-Black Remake

No present-day ten-episode remake; a period version or carefully written late-life sequel remains imaginable

No present-day ten-episode remake; a period version or carefully written late-life sequel remains imaginable

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  • A present-day series built around direct messages and texting is judged inert. — Bill Simmons
  • A 1990s period treatment or two people forced together abroad is proposed as the only workable long-form remake. — Bill Simmons
  • A sequel could make Harry and Sally an older interview couple, explore their 35th anniversary, or center their adult children, but the panel fears an unwanted reboot. — Bill Simmons
  • Nancy Meyers, Meg Ryan as screenwriter, political-pundit Harry, and a Brentwood/Palisades relocation are proposed and repeatedly challenged because New York is essential.
  • A divorce-and-reunion sequel is rejected because the characters already resolved their avoidable mistakes. — Bill Simmons
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1:23:46

Probably Unanswerable Questions

Would the film improve without the romantic ending? How far did Harry run? Did its success help Seinfeld receive more...

Would the film improve without the romantic ending? How far did Harry run? Did its success help Seinfeld receive more episodes?

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  • Would the film be better if Harry and Sally stayed friends? — Bill Simmons
  • How far does Harry run to the Puck Building? Research estimates half a mile and about six minutes at five miles per hour. — Bill Simmons
  • Would Seinfeld have received its four-episode continuation without this film proving an audience for talk-heavy New York friendship stories? — Bill Simmons
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1:26:52

Who Won the Movie?

Disputed: Billy Crystal and Nora Ephron

Disputed: Billy Crystal and Nora Ephron

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  • One participant chooses Billy Crystal for the final speech and the comic material that makes the film distinct. — Juliet Litman
  • Another leans Crystal because no other actor could sell the part, while resisting separating him from Meg Ryan. — Bill Simmons
  • One participant explicitly chooses Nora Ephron for establishing her later run and the modern rom-com form. — Bill Simmons
  • A second explicit choice moves to Ephron because the script could support other compatible lead pairs.
  • The discussion wavers back toward Crystal; one view is that the movie does not work without this particular pairing, so the chemistry is the real winner. — Amanda Dobbins
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The panel argues that the film established the modern friends-to-lovers romantic-comedy template and changed how audiences interpreted opposite-sex friendship.
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Billy Crystal, Meg Ryan, Rob Reiner, and Nora Ephron are discussed as a rare combination whose careers and sensibilities converged to make a durable two-hander.
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Nora Ephron’s voice, interest in homes and food, gender balance, and ability to make friendships immediately legible are treated as foundational to later romantic comedies.
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The panel contrasts the film’s patient, dialogue-led scenes and restrained soundtrack with contemporary streaming rom-coms designed around constant motion and aggressive pop cues.
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A past Grantland “rom-com week” and an earlier podcast are mentioned retrospectively; this is not evidence that the current episode belonged to that programming theme.
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