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Rachel Getting Married

113 minutes

Cast

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Anne Hathaway Kym Buchman
Rosemarie DeWitt Rachel Buchman
Bill Irwin Paul Buchman
Debra Winger Abby Buchman
Tunde Adebimpe Sidney Williams
Mather Zickel Kieran
Robyn Hitchcock Wedding Guest

Rachel Getting Married | The Rewatchables

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Most Rewatchable Scene

Kym’s fight with her mother

In the discussion (14)
Approx. transcript time · 00:50:53Read transcript
  • For the theme month the category is renamed Most Gripping, or Dysfunctional, Scene, with a clear winner anticipated.
  • Nominee: the younger sister learning she is not maid of honor, a sister fight that dredges up childhood grievances.
  • The annoying blonde friend making the saris draws mockery.
  • Nominee: the mother’s arrival and the rehearsal-dinner toasts, with visible handheld camerawork and a curved table.
  • Watching the toasts with a daughter who pleaded that the younger sister not give a speech is recalled; she takes the mic and the family freezes into panicked thin smiles.
  • On rewatch the toast itself seems less cringeworthy than remembered; the dread at the table makes the scene. A recent Euphoria intervention episode is compared.
  • Real wedding-speech disasters are recalled, including a heckled best man and maid-of-honor poems.
  • Nominee: the post-rehearsal fight that ends with Rachel’s pregnancy announcement, called an all-time mic drop and unfair.
  • Nominee: the dishwasher-loading contest, a rare functional-family moment that collapses at the Ethan plate and leaves the younger sister alone in the kitchen.
  • A long-running dishwasher feud with a sister, who prefers washing by hand, is described.
  • Nominees: the younger sister’s rehab speech and the post-salon fight over invented rehab stories, ending with the father breaking down.
  • Nominee: the younger sister confronting her mother over leaving her to watch her brother, called perhaps the most intense 90 seconds of the theme month and one the movie cannot recover from.
  • The mother leaving the wedding early after the hug is also listed.
  • Final choice: the mother-daughter fight, echoed with “ditto”; the toast is argued for but accepted as the backup, needing to be a little funnier.

What’s Aged the Best?

Rosemarie DeWitt; live music; title-drop speech; trumpet player’s toast to Ethan; Sidney’s wedding song; Debra Winger

In the discussion (11)
Approx. transcript time · 01:04:11Read transcript
  • Rosemarie DeWitt is praised and her lack of a supporting-actress nomination lamented.
  • The 2008 supporting-actress nominees are recalled; asked whom to drop for DeWitt, one host cuts Amy Adams, likened to Alex Smith.
  • The strange, memorable live music is praised.
  • A speech that says the movie’s title is enjoyed.
  • The trumpet player’s rehearsal-dinner shout-out to Ethan drains the life from Hathaway’s face.
  • Sidney’s Neil Young song at the wedding is praised for his beautiful voice, with jokes that he should be in a band.
  • Debra Winger is chosen, with research on roles she turned down or lost: Raiders of the Lost Ark, Fatal Attraction, Broadcast News, Peggy Sue Got Married, A League of Their Own, and Romancing the Stone after a reported biting incident.
  • Winger’s career is discussed: Urban Cowboy’s overwhelming screen presence, An Officer and a Gentleman and Terms of Endearment making her the biggest young actress.
  • Her reputation for on-set conflict is reviewed, including reported clashes with co-stars on An Officer and a Gentleman and Terms of Endearment and with the Wonder Woman star.
  • An alternative career path imagines her aging into Diane Keaton parts as a Nancy Meyers muse; she stepped away from Hollywood in the late 1990s.
  • She is felt in every second despite appearing in only about four scenes.

What’s Aged the Worst?

Maid of honor casting; the saris; multicultural goodness on display

In the discussion (3)
Approx. transcript time · 01:11:57Read transcript
  • The original maid of honor is called annoying and oddly cast.
  • One view holds the character is meant to be annoying; the actor, Anisa George, is named, and the director is said to cast for what is in people rather than transformation.
  • The saris are listed as standing for multiculturalism as a badge of goodness, including the wedding officiant character.
In the discussion (2)
Approx. transcript time · 01:15:29Read transcript
  • The actor playing the best man who sleeps with Hathaway’s character, whose biggest role this was, is chosen; the part could have gone to a bigger star.
  • He is called very sexy and good as a recovering character.
In the discussion (4)
Approx. transcript time · 01:16:04Read transcript
  • Bill Irwin is chosen: loved in the film but his energy is dialed up too high.
  • Steve Martin as the father is imagined but rejected because the role needs an actor without baggage.
  • Agreement follows that it is too much.
  • A counterpoint holds everyone is meant to be too much, with the director imagined as the nightmare wedding planner insisting on celebration.

Apex Mountain

Anne Hathaway; Rosemarie DeWitt; Bill Irwin, disputed; 2008 for people named Rachel

In the discussion (6)
Approx. transcript time · 01:24:48Read transcript
  • Anne Hathaway is a yes: this was the peak of her career juice, when multiple Oscars seemed likely.
  • Rosemarie DeWitt is a yes; the director is obviously not.
  • Wedding movies are not at their apex; Father of the Bride, Four Weddings and a Funeral and My Best Friend’s Wedding are named from the 1990s, with The Godfather’s opening wedding also credited.
  • Bill Irwin is proposed but immediately challenged.
  • 2008 is called a rough year for people named Rachel, citing this film and the Tiger Woods scandal; Jennifer Aniston’s Rachel and Connecticut weddings are also floated.
  • During the winner discussion DeWitt is also called this film’s Apex Mountain.

What Piece of Memorabilia Would You Want From This Movie?

Ethan plate; bridesmaid dress piece; living-room wallpaper

In the discussion (2)
Approx. transcript time · 01:32:29Read transcript
  • The Ethan plate would be the collector’s item, though disturbing.
  • A piece of Hathaway’s bridesmaid dress and the living-room wallpaper are suggested; the mother’s 1970s Connecticut stone decor is noted.
In the discussion (7)
Approx. transcript time · 01:33:14Read transcript
  • Hathaway is the first choice; no other nominee seems plausible.
  • Rosemarie DeWitt is called underappreciated and deserving of a nomination, taken instead by Amy Adams.
  • Hathaway is credited with successfully trying something different after The Devil Wears Prada.
  • Wesley Morris’s texted choice is Rosemarie DeWitt; the tally is two Hathaway, one DeWitt.
  • On returning, he reaffirms DeWitt as his winner. — Wesley Morris
  • DeWitt is recalled from Mad Men as one of Don Draper’s love interests.
  • Another host agrees DeWitt should have won the movie.
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