The final preferences split among the first diner conversation, the Temple of Dendur scene, and the wagon-wheel coffee-table breakdown; many other compact scenes are preserved as nominations.

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The 1977 car ride, grape spitting, diner order, Sheldon discussion, days-of-the-week underwear, and last-page habit are nominated as an opening cluster.
The 1982 airplane scene is nominated for the airport rule, white-man’s overbite, and debate over post-sex affection.
Carrie Fisher’s first lunch and Bruno Kirby’s batting-cage/baseball introduction are nominated together.
The Temple of Dendur “pecan pie” conversation is nominated for its photography, playfulness, and submerged romantic tension; one participant selects it.
The failed double date and the cab aftermath are nominated.
The Sharper Image “Surrey with the Fringe on Top” scene is nominated.
Harry’s “wagon-wheel coffee table” breakup rant is nominated and becomes one participant’s final choice.
The split-screen calls after Harry and Sally sleep together are nominated, with the difficult 61-take production story included.
The New Year’s Eve ending is admitted despite reservations discussed later.
The Katz’s Delicatessen fake-orgasm scene is recognized as iconic but rejected as overlong and less rewatchable.
The first diner scene receives one final preference for setting the film’s tone through a dense run of jokes.

Nora Ephron’s script, the 96-minute structure, friends-to-lovers premise, soundtrack, sexual candor, supporting friendships, old-movie references, and memorable micro-phrases form the episode’s longest praise list.

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The screenplay and Ephron’s voice remain clean, influential, and highly readable.
The 96-minute runtime wastes no scene and avoids modern padding, contrived villains, and overloaded will-they/won’t-they plotting.
Friends realizing mutual love remains a powerful movie and real-life template.
Harry Connick Jr.’s classic-song soundtrack avoids the dating effect of period pop choices.
New York restaurants, Sally’s changing hair before the perm, her intricate ordering, and the Knicks drought jokes remain vivid.
Carrie Fisher’s “Joe’s available,” Jimmy Breslin, and the warning about sleeping with a friend remain sharply observed.
The movie’s frank treatment of sex, different expectations, and Harry’s absolutist friendship theory remains productive and mostly nonoffensive.
Nora Ephron is treated as irreplaceable and New York in autumn as permanently beautiful.
References to Casablanca and older romantic comedies teach viewers to rewatch and argue about movies.
The fake-orgasm scene helped make discussion of women’s sexual experience more open, and “he’s never going to leave her” remains practical relationship advice.
The Pictionary arrows and phrases such as “baby fish mouth” show how small jokes became durable shared language.

What’s Aged the Worst?

The overexposed fake-orgasm scene, Meg Ryan’s perm and final-scene acting, dated aerobics and retail references, Billy Crystal’s age makeup, couple conformity, and lack of diversity are criticized.

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The fake-orgasm scene has lost surprise through repetition and now feels long, though its final line remains iconic.
Meg Ryan’s crying-scene perm is called an exceptionally bad haircut.
The heavily clothed aerobics or tap class feels unmistakably 1989.
Teenagers may no longer understand the Casablanca references even though the film itself has aged well.
The Sharper Image store and Theodore Roosevelt shooting reference require lost period knowledge.
Jess’s wedding speech is called mean by some panelists because it jokes that neither bride nor groom was attractive to their friends.
Meg Ryan’s repeated “I hate you” response in the climax is criticized as weak acting against Crystal’s strong speech.
Billy Crystal’s college hairpiece and aging treatment make him look older in 1977 than in 1989.
The story treats heterosexual coupledom as the only satisfying outcome and contains no visible gay or Black characters.

The Dion Waiters Award for Best Heat Check Performance

Carrie Fisher wins unanimously for making Marie a specific, fully legible person rather than a generic rom-com sidekick.

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Fisher’s Rolodex selfishness, repeated “You’re right, I know you’re right,” and emotional economy make five scenes feel career-defining.
The panel compares her favorably with later rom-com best friends and argues that Ephron’s friends are people rather than one-note assistants.

Is There a Better Title for This Movie?

The released title wins; “Harry and Sally” and “It Had to Be You” receive some support among the documented alternatives.

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The panel ultimately prefers the specificity and memorability of “When Harry Met Sally.”

Apex Mountain

Rob Reiner receives a qualified case, while Billy Crystal, Meg Ryan, and New York are rejected in favor of later or earlier peaks.

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Billy Crystal is rejected because City Slickers and his Oscar-hosting run take him higher.
Meg Ryan is rejected because later signature movies and an uneven filmography complicate the case.
Rob Reiner is proposed and partly accepted, though Misery and Castle Rock/Seinfeld success make a later peak plausible.
New York as a pop-culture setting is proposed and rejected in favor of the 1970s.

The Joey Pants “That Guy” Award

Bruno Kirby wins because viewers know him as Harry’s friend or young Clemenza more readily than by name.

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His death and the deaths of Carrie Fisher and Nora Ephron are noted after the selection.

The Ruffalo / Hanna / Rubinek / Partridge Overacting Award

Meg Ryan wins as the only serious nominee, especially for Sally’s crying after Joe’s engagement; the panel also questions the character consistency around karaoke and the fake orgasm.

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Ryan’s crying, tissue-dropping, and rapid tonal shifts are judged too broad and messy.
The panel debates whether several uninhibited moments fit the otherwise controlled “Miss Hospital Corners” characterization.

Sequel, Prequel, Limited Series, or All-Black Remake

A present-day ten-episode remake is rejected; a period version or a carefully written late-life sequel is imaginable, though the panel strongly resists moving Harry and Sally out of New York.

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A present-day series built around direct messages and texting is judged inert.
A 1990s period treatment or two people forced together abroad is proposed as the only workable long-form remake.
A sequel could make Harry and Sally an older interview couple, explore their 35th anniversary, or center their adult children, but the panel fears an unwanted reboot.
Nancy Meyers, Meg Ryan as screenwriter, political-pundit Harry, and a Brentwood/Palisades relocation are proposed and repeatedly challenged because New York is essential.
A divorce-and-reunion sequel is rejected because the characters already resolved their avoidable mistakes.

Who Won the Movie?

The ballot remains disputed between Billy Crystal and Nora Ephron: Crystal receives an explicit choice and a later wavering lean, while Ephron’s enduring structure and voice receive two explicit choices.

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One participant chooses Billy Crystal for the final speech and the comic material that makes the film distinct.
Another leans Crystal because no other actor could sell the part, while resisting separating him from Meg Ryan.
One participant explicitly chooses Nora Ephron for establishing her later run and the modern rom-com form.
A second explicit choice moves to Ephron because the script could support other compatible lead pairs.
The discussion wavers back toward Crystal; one view is that the movie does not work without this particular pairing, so the chemistry is the real winner.

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