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The War of the Roses

Most Rewatchable Scene

Hospital-letter/divorce sequence; client-dinner destruction

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  • The Nantucket courtship is amusingly ridiculous despite false geography and visibly middle-aged college characters; comparisons with de-aging and The Natural emphasize the problem.
  • The first sexual encounter and multi-orgasmic exchange are praised.
  • The first dinner and bedroom debrief expose condescension, embarrassing storytelling and personal attacks; DeVito’s self-directed foot-fetish material is questioned.
  • Barbara discovering the dream house during a funeral and leaving notes on houses are favorites.
  • The nanny hiring interview and insincere liberation speech showcase Turner’s comic sophistication.
  • The snoring/nose attack is a turning point; the earlier gymnastics-related sexual injury is recalled as a medically implausible callback.
  • Oliver’s dramatic hospital-letter reading meets Barbara’s devastating indifference, divorce demand and desire to smash his face; her unambiguous hatred distinguishes the film.
  • Divorce mediation weaponizes the letter and escalates through Oliver’s elaborate insults.
  • Sexual reassurance is refused while the children overhear the argument.
  • The accidental cat death is one personal favorite but provokes horror over the cleanup and grieving dog; intent and indifference are debated.
  • Barbara’s attempted seduction of Gavin and the footstuff reply are praised.
  • The sabotaged client dinner is a favorite, escalating from fake illness and tissue in soup to urinated-on fish and vehicular destruction.
  • The supposed dog pâté, violent escalation and chandelier collapse culminate in Barbara rejecting Oliver’s hand with her last breath.
  • Calculating a housekeeper-equivalent salary is recalled; Oliver reading fire-extinguisher instructions while the tree burns is another favorite.
  • Final choices split between the hospital-letter/divorce sequence and the client dinner escalating into car and figurine destruction.